Liz Mouratsing A Life Coach and Mentor Near Hemel Hempstead Focusing On Changing The Negative Into A Positive Lifestyle. Providing Personal and Professional Life Coaching in Hemel Hempstead, Berkhamsted Hertfordshire London UK - structural graphic

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want to feel loved

Jul 11, 2013

We all want to feel loved and cared for, it's a basic human need .But a lot of the time we make it very difficult for ourselves to feel loved. We create rules that allow us to feel loved and when these rules aren’t met we feel alone and hurt.

 How reasonable is it to be expected to be told every  day "I love you" Every day?  The 3 hardest things to say are I love you, I'm sorry and help me. What about "if he/she really loved me, no matter how busy they are they'd make time for me"; yeh pile even more pressure on them, that would work. Or "if you loved me you'd give me some space at the end of knackering day" reaction omg I'm being rejected.

 See how our rules can make life difficult? Only you know your rules, no one else does and you're expecting them to be met. It's not going to happen. Solution; change the rule. "I feel loved when I think about ........." my children, my cat. .This is under your control, you're not needing something that can't be given to you. Change the rule;  make it easy for yourself  to feel  loved.

We attract what we feel and how we act. If we don’t love ourselves and take care of ourselves, how can we expect others to? We need to be kind  and stop finding fault with ourselves. Say only positive things  and celebrate the reality of who we are. When we do this we project a positive attitude out to the world and attract the people who will love and care about us.

We create rules that will allow us to feel anything. Look at yours and bring them under your control. You will be happier and attract the people and things you want in your life.;

Liz Mouratsing A Life Coach and Mentor Near Hemel Hempstead Focusing On Changing The Negative Into A Positive Lifestyle. Providing Personal and Professional Life Coaching in Hemel Hempstead, Berkhamsted Hertfordshire London UK - structural graphic
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